Gather initial thoughts and broad opinions about the book.

1. How does the author balance humor with difficult emotions like grief and rage? What effects did this emotional range have on you as a reader? 

2. How does Liars compare to other works of feminist literature—particularly those from previous generations or eras? How does it advance the genre or raise new questions about what feminism means in the 2020s? 

3. What did you enjoy most about Manguso’s writing style? How did the book’s vignette structure impact your reading experience?

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.

1. Jane’s journey explores the sacrifices women often make in marriage and motherhood. Have you ever felt the need to compromise your personal ambitions for family or relationships? How did you navigate that balance?

2. The theme of self-deception is central to Jane’s narrative. Can you relate to moments where you ignored red flags or rationalized behavior in a relationship? How did those experiences shape your perspective?

3. Jane’s relationship with her child brings her both challenges and a sense of fulfillment.