1. General Impressions 

Gather initial thoughts and broad opinions about the book.

• What do you think about the ending of the novel? Were you expecting it to be bleak or optimistic? 
• Have you read the other novels in the series? How have they influenced your view of My Brilliant Friend?
• What do you think the title of the novel reveals about Elena and Lila’s relationship? 

2. Personal Reflection and Connection 

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.

• Did you find Elena or Lila more relatable? Did you like either character more at the end of the novel than at the start?
• Have you ever had a competitive or contentious relationship with a close friend? How did your differences push you apart or bring you together?
• How do you feel about the place(s) where you grew up? How did your physical surroundings affect your upbringing? 
• How did you feel when you read about Marcello wearing Lila’s shoes at the end of the novel? What do you think this says about Lila’s or Stefano’s character?

3. Societal and Cultural Context 

Examine the book’s relevance to societal issues, historical events, or cultural themes.

• Elena Ferrante is a pseudonym and the author’s true identity is a secret.