Gather initial thoughts and broad opinions about the book.

1. In what ways does Slow Dance compare to Rowell’s other adult novels like Landline or her young adult books like Eleanor & Park in its treatment of love and relationships?

2. What impact did the three pivotal dancing scenes (prom night, Mikey’s wedding, and Shiloh’s wedding) have on your understanding of Shiloh and Cary’s evolution as characters?

3. The novel alternates between present-day scenes and flashbacks to high school. Which timeline resonated with you more strongly, and why?

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.

1. Shiloh and Cary reconnect after 14 years apart at their friend’s wedding. Have you ever experienced a meaningful reunion with someone from your past?

2. In what ways do you relate to Shiloh’s tendency to create emotional barriers for self-protective?

3. Both protagonists come from homes without fathers present and with complicated maternal relationships. What influence have your own family dynamics had on your approach to romantic relationships?

4. Cary’s military career creates significant challenges for their relationship.