Content Warning: This section of the guide contains discussions of racism, death by suicide, mental illness, emotional abuse, religious discrimination, and death.

Gather initial thoughts and broad opinions about the book.

1. How does The Secret Life of Bees compare to Sue Monk Kidd's The Book of Longings in its exploration of female spirituality and divine feminine power? What themes overlap between these works?

2. The novel weaves together multiple storylines about loss, healing, and found family. Which narrative thread resonated most strongly with you, and why?

3. How effectively does Kidd use beekeeping as an extended metaphor throughout the novel? What insights does this framework provide about community, nurturing, and survival?

Encourage readers to connect the book’s themes and characters with their personal experiences.

1. Like the Boatwright sisters, many characters create their own definitions of family. How has your own understanding of family evolved throughout your life?

2. August teaches Lily that timing is everything—knowing "when to prod and when to be quiet." Reflect on a time when you learned a similar lesson about patience and timing.

3. The characters each have different ways of processing grief (e.